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kamino

HIV worry
by para615, May 19, 2010 03:48PM
Hi Doc,

I am a worry freak and i know it.  I had a HIV test today and now the enxiety of the result is causing unbearable distress.  Hence paying for this question

Just to explain my scenario and then questions.

Went to see a csw in the uk 9 weeks ago . I had protected oral and then with the same condom she came on top.
and we had protected vaginal sex but not sure if condom broke..  However the lady did take the condom off and then used gloves to wipe me my pubic areas after we finshed.

My questions:


1) Would using the same condom for oral for 2 mins and then vaginal weaken the condom to break.   
2) I came in the condom and we continued haveing sex for 1 min after half erect, (lady was on top) would this cause friction
3) How obvious is a condom break? some threads say not very obvious and can a condom tear a little allowing and exposure to fluids
4) I have read threads saying that even if the lady was hiv positive and i was exposed that the chances of infection are slim after 1 exposure, but what I dont understand about this is that if this is the case with all individuals and chances of expose are low then how does HIV spread and become increasingly common in hetrosexuals.
5) I am circumsied is there any real evidence that this reduces risk
5) Scared about test result - as keep thinking condom broke based on the exposure i described and that HIV could get through a small tear or a whole.  Am i the unlucky one where it slips through the net and passed onto me

Please advise just so i can get through the days to the test result.

I canot work, and stopped sleeping with my wife because of the guilt and possibility of transmission

Regards and thanks in advance
给我几分钟，马上翻译过来

kamino

医生的回答 Hello

Straight to your questions:-

1) no, not necessarily. The proof is in the pudding. If it was intact at the end, then all is well. The difficulty for you is that it sounds as though you don't know. It sounds though equally that she was very careful so I imagine it was. I'd be calm about that.

2) if you came into the condom then the condom was fine and you were protected. Friction results from rubbing so there would have been friction but this for you was not a risk.

3) Yours did not tear - you came into it - condom ruptures /tears are quite dramatic and you usually will feel them tear and "pop" and also see the ragged bits around the base of your penis

4) Worldwide the HIV epidemic is greatest in heterosexuals. In the industrialised world it is largest in gay and bisexual males. The follwoing play a big part in developing countries - poverty, violence, malnutrition, different sexual practices, widespread other diseases etc etc - it is complex and fills books. In most "western" countries - ie wealthy countries that picture is not replicated. The hiv populations in these countires are again confined to poor populations, gay and bisexual males, migrants etc. In teh last thirty years we have done a dreafully poor job of containing and reducing the sixe of the epidemic in wealthy countries. With respect, people like you are at actually relatively low risk.

5) yes, by a factor of between 5 to 8 times

6) well, as I say, I don't think so.

Best regards, Sean
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV ... worry-/show/1245030网址

kamino

（1）使用同一避孕套口头为2分钟然后是不是进阴道会不会削弱避孕套使其破裂。

（2）我用这个避孕套我们继续搞了1分钟（女在上）会导致摩擦破裂不？
（3）怎么确认避孕套破裂了，有一些螺旋纹，但是不是很明显，会不会出现小裂口进入体液。
（4）大意是，我知道即使那女的是艾滋病传染者但是暴露在空气中艾滋病会让感染的记录变小，但是我不明白什么让艾滋病变得怎么泛滥了

（5）我没发现包皮露出去的证据，这个是不是可以减低风险。
（6）害怕的得到测试的结果，我想避孕套破了会导致我龟头暴露，然后HIV从一个小洞进来感染我。
医生回答
（1）没有必要，看结果才算数，如果避孕套是完整的，那一切都没问题，你的难题在于你不清楚，这个听起估计小姐也一样小心的。
（2）如果你带了避孕套的话，这个避孕套会保护你的，摩擦力是取决于你和他的相对摩擦，但是对于你是没有风险的。
重点.....（3）你没有破裂，如果破裂了的话，会一个相当大的裂口,通常的情况下你会感觉到破裂口的并且有“碰的下”，也可以看见你暴露出来的JJ。
（4重点.....）全球艾滋病最流行时在于同性恋之中，在发达国家，最多得也是同性恋和双性恋的男性。
其次比较多的是发展中国家........下面有点政治不和谐，这里就翻译了........即使在西方国家也只
局限在贫穷人口的同性念和双星年。过去30年，做了很多工作尽可能得减少，对于一般的人，其实风险比较小的
（5 这句话，我没有懂
（6）好了,就像我说的,我不这么认为。

a6595632

谢谢你的翻译！

woshishazi

是在medhelp上的么？那个网站很好！

kamino

是的，就是这个论坛上的，这个论坛上医生都比较专家，我看了下，全美对这个论坛评价很高

liveok

kj？？？oral job？？？