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你懂英文么?我给你看篇文章。
Hi Doctor.
I have read a few posts in the free forum as well, and while I can guess your answer wanted to ask still to be sure.
I am 32, married with children.
Over the past 6 months, I had sexual encounters with a few women , all white, all coming from normal backgrounds (i.e. - No IV drug users, no addictions that I know/can think of etc.). Out of the three, two are married, and one is single.
I made sure not to have intercourse at all, and the extent of the encounters was mostly fingering (both fingering and being fingered - no gloves or any other protection), and oral sex (them on me, very little me on them). They also masturbated me. Both married woman lactated slightly, and while I am not sure - I most likely ingested some of their breast milk.
While researching Adult Breastfeeding Relationships (ANR/ABR) online, I came across a few sites indicating the risk of HIV infection through the milk.
Naturally, I freaked out, and am now abstaining completely from having sex with my wife, and fearing I may infect my children in case I "caught" something.
As I am not here to be morally judged, I would greatly appreciate if you can answer the following:
1. Am I at any risk for HIV infection based on the above mentioned activities?
2. If I am, can I have infected my loved ones?
3. Should I get tested, and if so - what are the fastest most accurate results possible?
Thank you in advance.
这是一位很好很有经验的专家,听听专家的意见,对照自己的行为,避免不必要的担心和无谓的损失。
Welcome to the Forum. Judgment is not something we do here so do not worry about that. We are here to provide you with facts and assist in risk assessment so that you can come to your own decisions. Let's address your questions:
None of the activities that you describe put you at risk for HIV. For starters, while asking them if they might be infected and if they have been tested is ALWAYS a good idea, as a group, your recent partners sound to be low risk and are statistically unlikely to have HIV.
HIV is not spread by mutual masturbation and the quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex. Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex. It is not something to worry about, particularly when your partners' risk appears to be as low as it is.
Your question about breast milk is an interesting one and deserves its own comment. (专家觉得这个男人担心乳汁传染的问题很有趣,呵呵,可爱的老头). We know that neonates who breastfeed from infected mothers regularly become infected with HIV. This in turn raises concerns for adults who may ingest a partner's breast milk. There is no reason however for concern. Neonatal gastrointestinal tracts do not have stomach acid and can absorb entire proteins and bacteria through their linings. In contrast, in adults, stomach acid rapidly kills most bacteria and viruses and mature stomach and intestinal linings does not permit passage of entire proteins or organisms past their linings. As a result, there is no risk fo getting HIV infection from ingestion of breast milk or secretions, even in the unlikely circumstance that your partner might have been infected.
Working through your specific questions:
1. No, no risk at all.
'2. No, your loved ones are not at risk.
3. You have no medical reason for HIV testing. If you desire to get tested, realize that it is for your own peace of mind, not for a medical reason and commit to believing the results (which will be negative) when you get them.
Hope these comments help. EWH |
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